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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

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Stop writing men as if modern Western toxic masculinity were the default throughout time and space.

Your medieval knights can share a pallet at night because it’s cold in this castle and they’re demonstrating their respect and affection for each other by sharing physical proximity.

In the far future, your dude can be a scientist adventurer robot captain, but he can also make food for people to demonstrate his affection and dance to show off his happiness.

Many cultures alive today expect the average man to be good with children, to be able to diaper a baby, to know how to assist in childbirth. Your men don’t have to go, “Oh god, an infant, I’ve never touched one of those before.”

Before modern Europe, there was nothing unmanly about loving colour, fashion, art, and decoration. Flowers weren’t always emasculating. Emotions weren’t always considered signs of weakness. Men got to want and have warm, close, affectionate friendships with other men.

In many ways, Western toxic masculinity of the last few centuries has been the exception, not the rule.

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I hate it when you’re reading smut and you can’t figure out what position they’re in.

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sometimes it just ends up being something like

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ITS BACK

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Y’ALL NEED JESUS

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Please stop reblogging this post

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This post made my water break

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In honor of my daughter’s first birthday next week, I’m sharing the post that made me laugh so hard that it broke my water.

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WHAT

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Last week I joked that my very cerebral, retired-police-chief-grandpa is basically Holt from Brooklyn 99 and then today someone said, “damn, we’re out of decaf” and he just deadpans “well there’s no need to get hysterical.”

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Yesterday he said “if you need to insult the same person twice you’ve already failed in your goal to devastate them”

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My Yaya was trying to remember the name of a guy who stole money from her in high school today and my grandpa instantly pipes up “his name was Bernie Ryan and he was a scoundrel